The Difference between Passion and Drive
My friend Lisa is a professional musician. She practices and performs more than 60 hours a week, all for very little money. She is a very intelligent person who could probably have a much more secure job, but in her own words she “loves what she does.”
I have another friend, Maggie, who is a corporate attorney. Like Lisa, Maggie works long hours in the office. She doesn’t particularly enjoy her work (although she is very good at it), and she is rewarded with a large paycheck every two weeks. When I asked her why she decided to be a lawyer, she answered that “it was the safe thing to do.”
What is interesting to me is that both my friends are motivated to work hard and excel at their careers, yet their sources of motivation stem from two completely different forces: passion and drive.
A lot of people confuse passion with drive. After all, they both seem to accomplish the same end result – the motivation to succeed. But there is a key difference, described by Randy Komisar in his classic book “The Monk and the Riddle.”
Well said, Randy. Passion is addictive; it flows through us naturally and pulls us towards something that we desire. Lisa’s passion was the joy of creating music. Everything else – the lifestyle, the performances, the long hours, was driven by this singular passion.
Drive is different – it is about outside expectations. Perhaps society wants you to do something (like go to graduate school or take a secure job). Maggie doesn’t particularly like her career as an attorney, but the stability and respect she commands from her friends and family is a tremendous motivation.
Is passion better than drive? I think so, for one simple reason: your memories. Passions tend to evoke positive memories and experiences – things that you actually want to remember, as opposed to the things you did because you felt you had to. When you look back on things, you’ll have fewer regrets.
So take a moment to define your passions. What is that pull that you can’t resist?